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He says he isn't returning yet because he's still thinking things through.
Dar, If he is saying the above then let him be to do his thinking.

In the meantime move forward with your life.

~ swl

Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}