Wow! Yuo sound like me. For several weeks I knew everything my BF did day to day, including what he ate for tea, what book he was currently reading and what he watched on the tele !! We, like you get on so well and just like normal, that if anyone who knew us listened in, they couldnt tell we had split up! Wierd.

You did extrodinarily well! Not answering the phone at first and then getting off the phone saying you had to go? I'm impressed.

Its just this kind of breezy, confident behaviour that apparently gets them missing us and thinking.. I dont seem to have done a good job at this, I always anwser the phone straight away!

You're doing great Lea and its nice to know theres someone in such a similiar boat to me (and not nice at the same time hey!)

Ali xx
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Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
Depression confirmed: 4 Mar
Stuck in Stage 2 !


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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