You continue to impress me with your resolve, CW. I know how hard it is though. We have such similar sitch's. My H is also torn up about breaking up our family, but not enough that he can avoid doing it. What is that???

We had a Mother's Day weirdness too. On Fri and Sat, the girls were asking me what I would want as a gift, etc, and I said I didn't need a gift, just them blah blah. They both get very excited about these holidays. H has been so cold to me that I worried he wouldn't get into it for their sakes, so I left him a message saying that I felt embarassed to be asking this, but I'd hoped he could muster up some enthusiasm for me on Mother's Day for the sake of his daughters' mother.

He was furious about that and I felt bad and awful. He used to spoil me on every little occasion.

Do your kids have friends with parents who are D? Mine don't, which makes the whole thing harder still.

Last edited by lovemyguy; 05/12/08 09:02 PM.

Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08