I talked to H last night. A good Db move was that I mentioned I'm meeting heaps of new people and making lots of new friends. H sounded interested in who those new people might be! I'm thinking I might really need to play the jealousy angle and make H feel like he could be losing me..... thinking about it anyway.
Also we talked about some friend of our that are going through a divorce, but have been separated for 2 years. And its getting really petty and nasty. And I said to H how glad I was that its not like that between us..... then later in the conversation we talked about how he is coming to do work on my home (paid building work) and I asked if he was OK with it - and he said yes and asked was I OK with it. And then he said he was grateful that he could still do things like that for me (!) and that we weren't like our other friends getting the divorce (I guess meaning that we can be friends). So I think that was really positive - even if we dont get back together, we are agreeing that we want to be friends. And it means that both of us have to work on it being cool, and not awkward. (Well I'm hoping H got that meaning ha ha!!)
So I'm going to see H on Wednesday night to do bathroom building stuff. Wish me luck. I'm actually just looking forward to seeing him, cause its been a while. NO EXPECTATIONS though, just hope to make the little friendship bridge a bit stronger with each interaction.
