Wasn't making fun Dar. Maybe she can say it in a way you can understand.
Point is she (I'd bet my year's paycheck) she isn't going to say anything different than any of the other marriage rebuilt veterans, and by the way the veterans aren't the end all be all for advice.
You're getting some great advice from people in similar situations as yourself.
It's almost like you're waiting for someone to give you the advice you want to hear.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
