nlt, I am glad that my last response made sense to you. This just shows you how messed up they are right now.
There were times when he would come over to see the kids and not remember that. Then when I would talk to him and ask when he was coming over to see the kids again he would say he was just here last week when in all reality it had been 7 weeks!!!!! They have no sense of time.
You can say that again, about the MLC!!! I'm still in shock that my H quit his job & moved to another state to be with OW that he doesn't really know. They met in June 2007 but only talk on phone & email up until he told me he wanted a D & then spent one weekend a month together in Sept. & Oct. then a week at Thanksgiving & 12 days at Xmas, then one weekend a month until he moved in March. It's been a month now since I've seen or talked with him.
When did you first start to notice something was changing with your H & you realize he might be coming back to you?
Then when I would talk to him and ask when he was coming over to see the kids again he would say he was just here last week when in all reality it had been 7 weeks!!!!! They have no sense of time. Y
I know what you mean about jobs. My h was never fired from a job until MLC!! He was in the Army for 22 years and never had a bad report. The ow lived in the apartments he worked at. He was over there more than working. Can you say, "Bad Judgement?" I guess the thought he was being descret but boy did alot of people notice!! LOL
About the changing in my H...... It was almost a year after the bomb. It still took another year almost before he came home for good. He did so many touch and goes it wasn't funny. Each time he did pop home for a couple of weeks I would see little changes in him, his mood, etc. The calls to home were getting more frequent and he would make up things to come over. I could see peeks of my old H coming through ever so slowly.
Glad to have made you laugh. Maybe there is some truth to it too though? I started a new thread today. Since you're a marriage rebuilt veteran, would you mind taking a look at my sitch. I've been here too long to be stuck like this and not wanting to let go. Thanks!
All together now de dum de dum.....aint what you say it's the way that you say it,.....aint what you say it's the way that you say it, thats what gets results!
Maybe there is some truth to it too though? I started a new thread today. Since you're a marriage rebuilt veteran, would you mind taking a look at my sitch. I've been here too long to be stuck like this and not wanting to let go. Thanks!