Sara I think you are doing great. I know it is hard. I think it is probably the hardest thing most of us have done. I know it is the hardest thing I have ever been through.

The time passes by so slow too. That is why it is important to stay busy. Idle time is not good the imagination right now.

Michelle is right, let him miss you. I know my sitch is different but I went about 2 and 1/2 months without seeing H and there was minimal contact...then he called out of the blue because he had driven here. He didn't forget about me during that time like I thought...instead he saw what it was like without me. He was even living with OW at the time, so it obviously wasn't this perfect little relationship that I had in my mind.

I know Michelle went a while without talking to her H at all too. I am just saying that just because you haven't talked to him doesn't mean he isn't thinking about you or missing you. Let him.

I am glad you had fun today.


Kris