Great advice by CBK.
Be the best man a W would want. Strong, independent, and confident. Remember, it takes time to sell your new product, particularly after years of showing a different you. Be patient and consistent. Don't lose the weight for her, do it for you.
You also must be mentally prepared to truly let her go.If you love her, then let her go. True love does not have requirements such as being with you or even loving you. This is a tough concept but, if you live it truly, you will be on top of the world and on top of your relationship with W. She will see it and feel it.

M 55
W 54
s 29
S 27
s 24
bomb 5/07
moved out 8/07
now dating wife


Me 54
W 54
S 29
S 27
S 24
M 32
bomb 5/07
MO: 8/07
D 7/09
dating W
W wants back 4/10