I've missed you and thought about you often. I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a hard time right now. How frustrating for H to say he wanted to work on things and then change his mind. I can't imagine how hard that must have been.
I think that by no means this is over, or that H is done. Could him saying he might move out be a reaction to his earlier statement on wanting to work things out? sometimes they take a step forward only to retreat further for a bit and then come out again......
It must be so hard to see S fly the nest, and to be dealing with this at the same time. Take a deep breath. Let this week pass and then re-read DR. Let H threaten to move out all he wants. You know to act AS IF when he does that- confuse the hell out of him back BA! We know you can, DB Diva!
I'm thinking of you this week (and all other weeks too!)