I am close to my parents although I have been the black sheep in our family for always doing as I wish (when I was younger). We have a different way of handling family Rs here, I know because I have spent time with xxs H family in the States. Our bonds are more "controlling" I guess. H used to believe he had a great R with his family. I don't he liked the fact that during Easter he felt WE are th only family he can really count on. It bothers him that they are not trying to get through to him. No mystery there, he never allowed then to in the past. They quit trying.
I don't think he will go for IC. He will try and heal his wounds by himself. LOVE K