I know what you mean about jobs. My h was never fired from a job until MLC!! He was in the Army for 22 years and never had a bad report. The ow lived in the apartments he worked at. He was over there more than working. Can you say, "Bad Judgement?" I guess the thought he was being descret but boy did alot of people notice!! LOL
About the changing in my H...... It was almost a year after the bomb. It still took another year almost before he came home for good. He did so many touch and goes it wasn't funny. Each time he did pop home for a couple of weeks I would see little changes in him, his mood, etc. The calls to home were getting more frequent and he would make up things to come over. I could see peeks of my old H coming through ever so slowly.