Help Me Act AS IF, Part 5

[newnamenewlife]

Hi SPM,
I wasn't suggesting impropriety re: the fort. Nothing like that at all--only that the issue was not that daddy sometimes camps out with the kids. The issue was that d11 clearly knows we are not in good shape as a couple. What bugged me was that H ignored that part of it.

He has not yet seen an attorney. He very much wants me to go to a collaborative L or a mediator with him so we can work it all out with "good will," as he puts it. He is terrified that I will go wiith a litigator. I have no idea what to do. I am very low on good will right now since he has dsimssed my wish to do MC from the get-go.

Something is wrong with him--but what is that something? He truly doesn not seem to be having an affair and he truly does not seem to be gay, so what else is there that makes him so resistant to our R?