Husband says "he's done trying".....now what?

[Snow White]

Yes I changed my name after H became really curious about this site when he realized I was posting on it mot just reading marriage info. He knows the other name, my dad calls me that and he does too if he is feeling extremely nice.

It is nice that your H remembered that you liked that tree and then bought it for you, I think he is being a little too black and white about his feelings and he is afraid to admit what is still there between you. Just a thought.

I wonder why he put the talk off, is it also that he is realizing things aren't as black and white as he thought?