Wow Michelle, sounds like you had a really fruitful evening! And you stayed over, lucky you! Are you pleased with how it went? You didnt elaborate much there...

So he said He misses what we had, but is still not sure that we can get back to that instead of how things were the last couple years... have you asked what he meant about how things were? There were things he wasnt happy with in your R, or did he mean, since he left and had an A, its too hard to wind the clock back? Have you suggested working through the issues at MC or Retrovaille, or is he not up for that?

Great that he felt so comfortable with you that he EXPECTED you to stay. Funny. We arent supposed to have any of those ! I'm really pleased for you that you got to spend the evening with him drinking champagne and then got to stay over! Looks like he needs more time though...?

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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