I don't know what to think of this

[glamgirl]

Dar you have all the tools and you are equiped to move forward. When the thoughts of h come in put up the big red stop sign in your mind and tell yourself to STOP. Not going to go there.

Decide today that life is going to change for the better. No more feeling sorry for your situation or wanting and wishing for h to return. Give h something to return to.

Keep busy! I had my nails done, tanning, hair cut and color, new clothes, Vicctoria Secret, babysitter on Friday nights. I did these things for me, not for h, for me! I try to keep the house very clean and give my kids all the love I can spread around. My days off, I try to do fun things with the kids.

Dar life must go on, if you choose it. Just maybe your h might notice and be attracted to what he sees. When you say to him please leave I can't bare the pain of seeing you go, how do you think it makes him feel? Is this someone he wants to return to? NO!

Remember you are in charge of your life! No one but you can make the neccessary changes. Go out and live life, that is what it is there for.

My h left the same month yours did! Hugs!