I am a little down today. I think that time of the month is arriving.
Yesterday was a pretty uneventful Mother's Day. I cleaned out my minivan which took me over 2 hours!
I cleaned every nook and cranny in that car and took out all 4 of the back seats to do it. I even scrubbed the carpet!
Then I took the boys out to Chilli's for Mother's Day.
That's when the sadness started to hit. I kept trying to tell myself be grateful for the 2 little boys you have but every time I looked another happy family was walking in all complete with the mother and father.
Bleh.
So last night JA called to talk to the boys. (I wish I still had caller ID) Anyway, they didn't want to talk. I told him Wednesday is my birthday and I was wondering if we could switch to him seeing the boys on either Tuesday or Thursday so I could spend it with them.
He got all nasty and said "nope, I didn't have them last year on my birthday because you had to have a Halloween party for them."
I just said "goodbye."
I wasn't dealing with his sh!t on Mother's day.
And he is so full of it. Last year his birthday fell on a Monday. He told me it was his birthday weekend and wanted to have them the whole weekend. Birthday weekend? Geez, most people only get a day, he wanted a whole weekend!
I had a Halloween party for the boys on the Saturday before his birthday and he asked me if he could have them on the weekend a few days leading up to it.
He got mad and wanted me to reschedule the party and I wouldn't.
I allowed him to come and get them after the Halloween party and he kept them until that Sunday night. S7 obviously had school the next morning so he had to bring them home. He could of gotten them on the night of his birthday but he didn't.
So he TM's me after I hung up on him. "I wasn't allowed to take the boys on my bday because you were having a halloween party. Remember? Now What?"
Yeah, now what? I was thinking of sending him an email of EXACTLY what happened last year.
