So, if he showed up at your door begging to come back, you'd welcome him with open arms? I think you need the time to work your head around all this and become comfortable on your own. Sluts don't get to married men unless the married man wants to go. You can't put the blame on her...he went willingly. I must admit though...that was the tackiest thing I've ever heard an OW do. I'd have said, "you're welcome to him. Hope you have better luck keeping him away from sluts than I did." I probably wouldn't have written that, but it still would have been fun.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
