It's always good to read about the other perspective. I found a site that talked about the perceptions of the betrayed spouse, the wayward spouse and the other partner. Talk about food for thought.
This sight talked about 'true forgiveness' which frees the betrayed spouse of the anger, which is really hurt, and allows us to truly go on with our lives.
That punishment for his behavior never brings growth, just the opposite. That the true forgiveness is all about loving. It sounds beautiful to me til I get an email that gets me all annoyed. Ugh.
