The flame is flickering out...

[SirPrizeMe]

addendum to my previous comment

I am frustrated... But lashing out to hurt her? I don't see or feel that.

I see now that my hurt over the crisis our marriage was in, worsened the problem. Without a doubt, when I was feeling down, it would reverberate through her and she'd despair.

I wished that I could have been more stoic then. Not to be unfeeling, but to share less. It was too much for her to see.