Hi kiki- Hope you had a nice Mother's Day. That is nice that your H text messaged you.
I used to be waiting for my H to have an epiphany but reality has sunk in for me that it isn't going to happen in my sitch. I am no expert but I agree with angelica...some may snap out of it but most gradually come around.
I somehow think that genetics could be a factor for MLC. My H's parents divorced shortly after my H and his sister left for college (my H dropped the bomb when his D left for college). My H's mom had an OM but I am wondering if maybe his dad was depressed. Anyway, his mom married the OM and then his dad had a GF...when both the OM and GF passed away, my H's parents got back together and were together until his dad passed away...his mom died a year later. Both of my H's parents died before I met him but it sure sounds like someone had a MLC. My mother had a MLC too...so mine may be coming.
I find that having information about MLC help because it does help me confirm that what my H is going through isn't all about me.
