No offense taken, RTL,
none at all.

I don't get the sword and shield thing, as applied to me.
I come here and vent and Nutty Chick lays into me, not really sure what that was all about.

I read what 3beans wrote and I understand the words, just don't understand how they apply to me. Am I lashing out at my wife? Don't think so.

I am frustrated... But lashing out to hurt her? I don't see or feel that.

Also I don't know exactly how anger works as a shield. I don't see how that works at all.

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S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....