One thing I learned about new Rs - just live one day at a time. For me - there does not need to be an agenda, a future. Now, that might not be ok for all - but it works for me. I'm so glad I finally realized that.
One of my closest DB friends in 02 was from Australia. My new man and I are planning a cruise there in the new year. It is a lifelong dream for me and fortunately for him as well.
Awesome that your ex and OW split. I think it is a secret desire for many of us.
Anyway, life holds great adventures ahead. We just have to open up our hearts and minds and let it happen.
