As for what I have to say.... You are fixated on the OM, it will pass. You will always have an interest as long as he is in the picture. BUT you dont need to always think about him. And as for there being no hope as long as OM is inthe picture. In the long term that is right. In the short term that is not right! Lets think back to the fact that you didnt get it about how long this could take. I am 5 months down the line, making good progress, I think you will agree.... But OM is still inthe picture. OM will be the last thing to go. I want him out in the end, but needs to be Ws decision. When she decides then you can start putting up walls around the 2 of you again.
WWJBD???????? Want to hear more about this!
Cheers
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
