Jeff,

happy to hear new developments. Michelle is right - you are awesome.

when she did the "cr card speech" i would acknowledge her concerns re debt - " ya, it is always at the back of my mind, too" - so she would feel heard and depending on the situation i would add - "and i wanted so much to do something special for you"


me, h - 40+
m-20+
s, d, ss - 20+
s, ow, pa since 04.2007
h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008
h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008
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