This seems to have had a small positive effect! Well done. Can you think why that is? Why has she responded well to this? And if you can figure that out, can you think of other ways to reach her? Sounds like you had a little joke about it too!!?
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she insisted on keeping the new one! She said she liked it. She asked if I'd gotten two, but I said that the old one seemed to work ok, so I'd use it. She said the new one got better answers!
Shame about the credit card debt thing...presumably you listened and validated etc. Do they have those 0% credit cards there? Can you transfer the balance to one of those, then you will be afford to pay it off quicker, as there will be no interest? I just got an advance on a credit card, but its 0% for a year, so an interest free loan! Or could you think of other ways to pay it off quicker? That would make you both happy, right!?
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
