Do you know for sure this is OW and her son? Could this just be someone who your H works with? Just make sure you know for sure before you make a big thing about it.

Also, think really hard about whether this is more hurtful for you or your D. I am not meaning to be obstructive by saying this - my H took my children near OW twice and it makes me feel sick just to think about it - but- it didn't phase my kids because they didn't know what was going on, and when they did find out THEY judged their dad for themselves without me having to say anything.

Remember this is about keeping the situation as calm as possible for your D. I do understand it hurts - but don't let your anger make you lose focus.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength