NikB #26 (tentatively moving to Piecing, again)

[S.T. _I Made It!]

so does H still write stuff like BFF forever? ya, that would be upsetting. I really think he is clueless, or just trying to deny it.

I remember dealing with the texting and asked H what he thought was appropriate and he said it probably wasn't appropriate. but then later says, she's just a friend, and she texts me, I don't text her first.

But the problem is, sure, I felt confident that he was just being friends and he wouldn't cheat on me again.. at that time...but I said, sometimes things aren't going to be good with us. Sometimes I'm not going to be happy, and sometimes you may get annoyed with me. I'm not a perfect person. But when those times happen, are you going to be talking to HER about it, or venting to her, and what then? The whole story can change.

I do think that this whole thing is something that would be best to talk about in MC. if you can get him to go. If not, you just have to find a way to make him decide it was his idea to quit.