Sara, you are so right on. Without even knowing us, you nailed it.
And that's why I really think I'm going to be moving to the Divorce forum. I don't see that changing. He'd rather make the kids and I face the consequences of his actions instead of him facing himself.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09