We spoke over the phone about 30 minutes ago. He told me what part of town it's in but not who he'll be sharing with. I know it's nothing sexual or R related but it's obvious it's a female. If it was sexual then they wouldn't be renting a 3 bedroom apartment. He told me he'll tell me who he's sharing with soon. Said the lease is for a year. Him moving into an apartment is putting another nail in the coffin. It feels more over now. Of course he'll have to adjust to living with another person so I wish him luck with that!! AND he'll have to support 2 homes and 2 sets of bills at least until I manage to make some $ along the way.
He told me I'd have custody but he's also said that he wants her to spend longer times with him once he gets his own place. I'm willing to share weekends but I don't think it'd be in her best interest to spend a week with him the 2 main reasons are; I'm closer to her school and he works late so they'd get to his place later than bed time. She's only 6 and needs at least 10 hours of sleep a night. He's not too stupid though and knows whats in her best interest.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
