Ping, I want and need any input I can get...and totally appreciate it. I totally agree that this was a set up. I think she was a pawn in his game play, she was a nobody. If he was seeing somebody on a serious level, I would know by now. We have too many common friends for me not to know. I agree, I think I may be have detatched too much. But I am not sure about anything at this point. I have always been the one to pursue him, when things went bad when we were dating, I fixed it. I almost wonder if in his mind, since I screwed things up, it is my job to fix it....I'm so confused. He's a tough nut to crack. I am anxious to see what the next week will bring. I am going to do a lot of praying, and soul searching to figure out how I am going to proceed. Even though I am hurt and angry, My gut instinct, is still not telling me to D. But I think, I need to get a game plan together.
Thanks for your input ping. Don't ever worry about hurting my feelings, feedback, and male perspective is always appreciated.
thanks Ping!! hugs Christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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