OMG--that's horrible. I'm so sorry, CW. How could he take the kids on Mother's Day? I don't understand these men at all, but clearly something really is very WRONG with them.

From getting to know you on these boards, I have to say he sounds like an idiot to let you go. You seem strong and centered and forgiving. I think there's some kind of feeling of inadequacy in your H, and mine, and no doubt many others here. Why would they walk away from fantastic women who are so willing to work on the M, and who are the mother of their children? It's just weird.

I'm really surprised too because your H seemed to be coming around for a while there, willing to go to Retrovaille, etc. What is that that he's now freaking out and ending it?

I'm sorry. What did you do today?


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08