Hi Kris,

I am just now catching up on everyones threads today. With all of the drama in my life, I have been negelecting others. Sorry! I understand that you are at the point of quitting and not wanting him back. And if he isn't willing to make the changes needed to allow the marriage to work, then I don't blame you one bit. You have worked so hard and tried everything btu in the end it takes two, doesn't it? If he isn't going to be there for you, then you need to find someone who will. You are young and wonderful and deserve so much better than him. He can go off with his troll and live under a bridge!

Good luck in whatever you decide...do you already have a lawyer?

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08