Hi, Sara. Karen and Michelle are right. I don't think your H is capable of making anyone truly believe that you are the bad guy in any of this.
Great plans for the week, btw! For Tuesday, whatcha gonna change "nothing" in to??? Treat yourself to something special, no matter how big or small. Something just for YOU.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell