I made waffles for my mom this morning and she came over for breakfast. I'm also trying to get some cleaning done.
I have to work later tonight. I'm not excited about that. Since I will be working full-time all summer, I'm thinking about quitting my retail job. Problem is I want to be able to go back to it for the holidays. So, I think I'll talk to my boss about taking a couple months off perhaps. I also need to try and get next weekend off so I can go down to So Cal with my parents to see my family.
Then my first summer school class starts tomorrow. The next four weeks are going to be very hectic and stressful. I can't wait til it's over.
While I'm not surprised that H didn't come to my graduation, I am disappointed/hurt that he didn't even send me an IM or call me to tell me congratulations. The list of holidays and important dates keep passing by and he keeps ignoring all of them - my birthday, Christmas, V-day, and now my graduation. It hurts that he can just ignore me like that, like we haven't been friends for more than 7 years, like we haven't been together for 6 and M for nearly 4.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Sorry your H was such a D!ck with capital D and didn't even call or Imed you. So unthoughtful of him. But your graduation still is something to be very proud of. It's your accomplishment.
Take care darling! I wish you more successes in the future (in all parts of your life).
Had a semi-bizarre convo with H on IM today. He finally asked how my graduation was, I told him lots of people asked after him, then told him all the fun we had w/o him - I'm so mean lol.
I mentioned I had champagne in the fridge I had forgotten to open (I was very tired by the time I got home) then asked H - (11:24:35 AM) me: i don't suppose you wanna help me with that champagne sometime? (11:27:54 AM) H: maybe (11:27:57 AM) H: we'll see (11:28:35 AM) Me: well, i don't think it's gonna go bad since it hasn't even been opened (11:29:16 AM) Me: lol (11:30:07 AM) Me: for someone who wants to date me, you sure are hard to actually get together with (12:18:26 PM) H: sorry, fell asleep (12:18:53 PM) H: just our dates have been kind of hit and miss and I'm unsure of them (12:54:52 PM) H: but we can certainly get together and work on that champagne sometime
I really don't know what to make of that. I do know that I REALLY do not want to go to work, but since I have to ask for next weekend off (which requires trading shifts) I certainly can't call in sick.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Yes a HUGE congrats on the graduation! I know you still have summer school to finish up, but just think it won't be long now! Did you take lots of photos of you in your cap and gown. When I got my masters, my Dad (who paid for my whole schooling) MADE me walk so he could take a ton of photos.
So is summer school a month long? I seem to remember my masters classes being about a month long. A long..grueling month however. But you'll get through it.
Sorry your H is being such a major jerk. The least he could have done was wish you a happy day.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
Cool! I'm glad he invited you over, but yes, shame he didnt wish you well before the graduation!!! Perhaps he feels awkward/embarressed, I dont know. Wierd he said that you hadnt met up becuase you are both so busy at different times and the dates done match up - thats an excuse surely! At least he gave one though, so its not a, dont want to meet up..
Not sure of the time difference, maybe you have already been to see him/are there now, but whichever it is.. GOOD LUCK! Hope you get a little clarity from him and find out whats what. Well done for graduating! You must be thrilled, its onwards and upwards for you.
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread