I'm really sorry this happened. Maybe he is saving you from years of heartache while he waffles back and forth. The truth remains, this isn't over. It's never over til the divorce is final, and then sometimes it's not over either. I still think standing up for your needs is important to do. Perhaps he saw that as you taking control of the situation and he needed to shoot you down again. Being mean on Mother's Day certainly does shoot you down. Do what you can to enjoy yourself today. Tomorrow will be another day. You will be with your kids again.
