Hi Kalni!!!

Wow, that IS good news though, I know you said he has said it before...but its good news he has said it again! So its still in the balance, hes still on the fence, but as he initiated the conversation with the C, thats positive too.. he is being a little more open about the possibility of returning home (and he must KNOW that this information would be relayed to you by her??)

I wanted to say that it is wierd that he will be away end of May - June (?)...because, Mercury, planet of thinking is going Retrograde, in Gemini !!! This is huge, it is going stationary retrograde at 20 degrees of Gemini (which is direct on his Sun, at 21 degrees). So this is in one way fitting that he will be going away, going inward and going over things in his mind, to make a decision.., but also, not the best time, as things decided under mercury retrograde can often get reversed, or be clouded by miscommunication.

Mercury goes direct on 19th June, before moving forwards again and life move forwards proper by July 4th. Hard to explain, so read this link if you are interested..MERCURY R

Other than that, I am so pleased that yuor H continues to hover nearby. Interesting that you feel your interactions are uneeventful and he is distant with you..and yet he asks the C to go over the exercises! So things are not as they seem. Also you said you felt the OW was "in big time" and yet, he said there was noone else! I felt recently that as he is getting closer to deciding, he is even more fearful of giving you false hope and is wary of hurting you and so it makes him act cool. God these guys are so perverse! I can only hope that this explains why my BF has stopped the daily contact...because he's considering coming back!

Glad the news from the C wasnt bad, not bad at all !
Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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