I think he said "he would like to come home but he is scared". You know what they say, delete everything before the "but" in a sentence. So "Amen" to him deciding, hopefuly he will make the wise for HIM decision.
I am not ecstatic about the news. He has been repeating this for a while now. I was happy he initiated the discussion with my C (she was pretty surprised too) and that although I thought we were drifting appart the last week, he is not. He obviously needs some "cave" time. And Lisa, yes he realises he needs to work on some things, he said he feels he can't change himself and that he realises it was both of us that were wrong, not just me. I doubt he will work on himself systematically.
C also told me that he has some issues with his family. They were considered to be very close and I believe he is disappointed in them cause they actas if they don't care about what he does. They have left him alone. Until this point he considered this respect. Now that he needs to decide and "wants" to try to come home, I think he expected some help.
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Lisa, if you could, please try to find those details. The doctor said he should start on chemo after 45-60 days. Thanks
