guys, I'm really having a hard time with h and the thought that on his weekends with d5 he is with ow. I cannot have my 5 year old around this person.

There is a paper that can be brought to court barring contact from my daughter to this person. My lawyer told me it might inflame the situation, but honestly, I can't risk my d5 around this person, I just can't. my h has turned out to be such a LIAR -- about EVERYTHING that I just can't trust him.

So tomorrow I will put the paperwork in progress. I need your thoughts. Also, I need someone to give me advise as to how to act around h when we do the drop offs and pick ups. Ever since last week and his major lie and deception that we would give things a second shot only to be totally lied to because he wants me to sign the refi, I feel such anger toward him, it's not even funny.