SallyM,
In about one more month, my D will be final. My stbxh has asked or implied numerous times that he would like us to try to work it out. Sadly, there is never ANY action taken to end it w/ow - only more disrespectful behavior on his part. But, one of the most maddening things to me is that he STILL tries to initiate sex... I usally mumble something under my breath about not wanting it.. Next time, I think I need to say a lot of what you did.. Very well done \:\)

LO