I don't think I've posted to you before, but I always read your thread. You and Michelle give each other such great support.
Something you said resonated with me....
Originally Posted By: klm
I was devastated. I had to tell H this over the phone, and I remember he didn't say much. I remember being very upset because I needed him to comfort me, but he just kind of acted like it was no big deal. Maybe that was his way of showing me that it wasn't an issue for him...or maybe it was his way of trying to not let it be an issue.
.....and reminded me of the way that men support each other- by downplaying problems and making out like they're no big deal, whereas what we would do (girls) is to show support and sympathy. Could H have been doing that?
On the other note, of the D, you've put up such a good fight for your M and been so patient. I don't think anyone would blame you for filing if that's what you want to do.
