Mishka's- new thread/new tude - H who?

[still hoping]

Hi mishka,

Mother's Day seems to have hit many of us here pretty hard.

I want to respond to his text but I want to do it in a way that he knows how much he is hurting me by contacting me.

Your H is already dealing with a lot of guilt. Placing more blame on him or trying to make him feel guilty will only push him away more.

Thank him and leave it at that. Be thankful for the positives.

Hang in there.