I think there is a fundamental problem with men who have As trying to repair their R later. First, men don't normally like to talk. Second, they like to fix things. So, not only is it not something he'd like to talk about, it's something that he doesn't know how to fix, and he caused the problem to begin with. I think his attitude of getting over it applies just as much to him as to you. He's dealing with his guilt in the only way he knows how.

In either case, I know that you have tried so hard to save your M. And I won't judge you no matter what you decide to do.

(((Kris)))


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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