Thanks Sara.

She is furious about having to answer the discovery questions. She was furious about me not agreeing the every aspect of her D filing. I am finding out that if everyhing does not go exactly her way on her schedule, then the anger is huge and scary. Most of the things that she attacks me about are part of the legal process..... Nothing to do with me. She is even angry because I am not angry and have been "too nice".

I have discovered that the whole D has very little to do with me. I am just the aspect of her life that everything is blamed on....... as if I am somehow respoonsible for her happiness.