Love the idea of following up on the division of labour with your W- that was a great idea of Al's. She's on a roll this weekend!
I had a thought reading one of you earlier posts about the difference in standards between yourself and W. Are you guys very far apart on that, or quite close? I was just wondering if your levels are far apart enough for her to want to repeat everything herself. If so, that might be partly responsible for a bit of her resentment wall (and I realise as I say this that this is due to her control issues. Just wanted to suggest it, as I guess one thing we're trying to do is to chip little holes in that big thick wall!).
Anyway, I'm rambling- it's the sun- not used to it at all!
