In case anyone is reading..... Yesterday and Friday Night were very distant. WAW has been very angry about the legal stuff and has basically blamed the whole legal process on me. She filed, not me. I have been trying to follow my Pastor's advice and trying to please God, not the W.
I am finally in full blast LRT and Detachment. I managed to get her nothing for Mother's day from me. I took the kids shopping and they get $20 to spend. We will see if this has any impact at all. I feel better. Not becasue she is so furious but because I am detached. Maybe DBing is really about getting yourself beyond the M into your new life. Then if the WAS comes back it is like a side effect.
