You are doing the best you can. The fact that your WW actually spews these things to you is unimaginable. I don't know if I could take the constant reminders that I don't give WW and OM enough time together. I understand your pain. I guess our WW's just don't verbalize the things that they are probably thinking about the OM.

My family is torn, as well. My parents and my sister. The only real family that WW has. I am not sure if they can resore that relationship if we reconcile. It has made me not see them as much, because I know how they feel.

I get the same thoughts. Yesterday for sure, if you read my thread. Why would I want someone who has done this to me? How many other EA have there been? Why do we put up with this sh**!

We know why.

But like Puppy asked me, can you really love the person that she is? Really? Not who you think she used to be. Who she is today.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."