There and Back, up and walking #1

[Lissie]

You are so damn wonderful.

Happy Mother's day to you.

Blech.

My heart was beating just reading it.

I can imagine how you are feeling

I think what you said here was so EXCELLENT.

I told him because he lives with another woman. that he chose another woman.

and I told him that I was worth more than that (he agreed).

and I told him that I can't be his f-buddy

and I told him that last october when I thought I could, it almost killed me, because it means more to me than that.

and I told him that he can't come to me every time he has a fight with OW (don't know if that's the case, only speculating).

You are not second best.
YOu are the mother of his children, and deserve to be put in only the highest respectful category.

Nothing will work out between the both of you, until she is out of the picture for good.

I think he is seeing this. I think he may be trying.

Good for him. Keep up what you have been doing.

I see how much he loves you and your family. BUT

actions speak louder than words. (learning this myself)

He has a lot of muck that needs to be cleaned out of his system.

It will take a long while.

Hold your ground. If you pray, pray for the scales to be lifted from his eyes.

Your compassion, and your warmth, make you marvy.

He can see that, and he misses it so much.

He has to make some hard decisions, and all you can do is let him be.

(((((((((((Sally))))))))))

Have a great day sweetie