Good for you, CW. I agree that it gets to a point where someone has to take action. I am following in your footsteps.
Good move with the rings--has he taken his off? I have thought about that too if my H&I S. There's a couple we know who recently S (same sitch, he's not in love, needs space). The W still has her ring on while the H's is off. That struck me as a little pathetic on her part and made me think that I will remove my rings if H does. Even if we were to reconcile, I'd want a new ring to symbolize a new M.
And you know I feel exactly the same about H leaving the kids (check out what happened the other night on my thread.)
There really is something wrong with these guys. Maybe MLC is truly a mental illness. Something really distorts the way they think.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08