Im so sorry you have to go through this. I really cant offer much advice because i am in the same boat as you. however mine just sleeps at another womans house. he hasnt slept at home for about two weeks now. It hurts, but im not giving up. even though he texted me and said he wanted a divorce and me to leave, im not leaving. im just going to let him have his space for now. Ive gotten the whole just leave him you will be better off lecture from everyone. But thats not what i want, even though its what he wants. I married him because i love him.