Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Starshyne]

My H is 37 and I am not sure if he is going through a MLC or not either. He is going through some type of crisis, that is for sure. He has sudden wanted to go back to his life before he met me. He has lost 50 pounds, dyed his hair purple (now it is blonde highlighted tips), got contacts, goes to tanned booths, works out ALL of the time... He says that he is NOT getting older, but is getting younger. He said that he liked being with the OW because she made him feel young. He is staying out all night, going to bars, etc. All of this is stuff that he did in his mid 20's right before we met.

I don't know what is going on with him. Actually labeling it a MLC or not doesn't really matter to me. As long as I just keep in mind that he is "sick" right now it doesn't really matter what you call it.

Strange though how so many guys seem to go through this bizarre behavior in their late 30's!!!